Whilst it’s very common for the bride to take her husband’s last name, there’s no legal requirement to do so.
Many couples I’ve married have chosen to keep their own surnames. Others have decided the husband will take the bride’s surname, and some even create a completely new surname—often a creative blend of both.
Your name is your choice, and there’s no right or wrong decision.
Ordering Your Official Marriage Certificate
If you choose to change your surname, you’ll need to order an official certificate of marriage from the Department of Births, Deaths and Marriages (BDM).
After your wedding, I’ll submit all the legal paperwork we’ve signed together to the BDM.
Once processed, they’ll contact you by email or phone to ask if you’d like to order the official certificate.
(At the time of writing, the fee in Queensland is $56.20.)
Why You Need the Official Certificate
This certificate is the key document required to change your name with:
- Banks
- Government departments
- Superannuation funds
- Insurance companies
- … and anywhere else you need to update your name.
The certificate you receive on your wedding day is a decorative certificate—a lovely keepsake, but not legally valid for official name changes.
You Can Order It Later
If you don’t order the official certificate straight after your wedding, that’s perfectly fine.
You can contact the BDM at any time in the future to request it.
Simplifying the Name Change Process
Changing your name can feel overwhelming—there are so many places to notify!
The good news? There’s a simple solution.
I recommend using Easy Name Change, a company that handles the entire process for you.
Just send them your paperwork, and they’ll do all the legwork—saving you time, effort, and stress.
Trust me, you won’t regret it!
Need Help or Have Questions?
If you have any questions about changing your name or the process after marriage, please feel free to get in touch. I’m always happy to help guide you through it.
Warmest regards,
Nik Reeds
Civil Marriage Celebrant